What else does a woman want? “I just bought her a car, did the registration in her name and paid six-month salary to a driver who takes her everywhere. Before this, she gets a monthly allowance of N10,000 (that’s not the housekeeping allowance, which is N40,000 per month). I get her clothes and jewellery anytime I travel or from mobile merchants in my office. But, kike is never pleased,” stated Jude, 38 and father of three. “She is one of the nastiest... 

The Mathematics of Life, You Can’t Have it All Ademola Kazeem Right from the inception of the world, the default design of this world has been failure, stress and sorrow. Man came to this world in blood and he came crying vehemently, nobody leads a straight life without some ups and downs, even the so called ‘the rich’. It is a general knowledge that the rich also cry. You can’t have it all, you have to lack one thing or the other, and nobody is... 

Communication is the lifeline of marriage. From the beginning to the end, it determines the potential of every area of a relationship. Whether it is money, children, romance, sex or household chores, being able to openly and successfully talk things over is crucial to marital harmony. Of course, just as in other areas, men and women are very different when it comes to communication. One of the essential differences that must be understood is the encryption... 

Why are you leaving me? This is a question many people have said, while some are hitching to say it. It is amazing most times we do not receive a clear, concise answer, and sometimes it is tactfully dodged. Several partners dilly dally on it, they recite a break up reason which has been practiced over and over. Before this time, let see what happened. Hmm! Who is at fault? If you expect me to put the blame on any of the party then you better back off... 

(Whenever you fight, fight fairly) Adejoke got married to the love of her life after seven years of courtship. The marriage was a huge celebration, in fact, friends and family were all happy because they eventually got married. Barely a month into the marriage, Adejoke paid me a visit and after talking for a while, she asked me a question “Is fighting part of marriage or love?” I looked up, laughed and told her “it’s part of marriage.” She stared... 

Sometimes ago a lady once asked me a question. “She said, “How do I know I married the right person?” I looked at her; I said “it depends.” I use to know a quotation, by Sheri and Bob Stritof “I did not always think he was not right nor did he always think I was right thou we were”. Every marriage has cycle and beginning, when you fell in love with your spouse, you anticipated their calls and wanted their touch. Falling in love is easy. It’s...